It seems to take much longer to get ready in the morning when I have to take Massimo to school. However, I read somewhere that it takes, on average, two and a half extra minutes to get a toddler ready to go with you than it takes on your own. Two and a half minutes–For just a few years. Those are precious two and a half minutes.
Until this past April when my mom retired, I took Massimo to school about three or four times a week. That made for both long mornings and long weeks. When she retired, she started taking him into school. While I’m super grateful for the help (and the shorter days and shorter weeks), I realized this morning how much I’ve been been missing out on.
This morning was the only day this week that I took Massimo to school. Boy was it fun. Yes, I had to contend with a kind of grouchy child who did not want to go to the bathroom, change his diaper or get dressed. I also had to feed him at 5:30 am (even though he is fed breakfast at school)–he wanted “hotcakes” and fries (lucky for him we had one of the two).
Then, instead of allowing me to load the car with the various paraphernalia that I needed, he insisted on coming with me and getting in the car –even though I wasn’t quite ready to leave. I loaded him in the carseat in the dark (which is more fun than a barrel of monkeys)–and he was COLD and thirsty. Please note, he was cold because I had put a sweater on him–which would have been warm enough if Mr. Patience would have let me run out to the car to turn the heat on.
Back in the house I went to get him a blanket and a bot bot (cup–for those of you who don’t speak toddler). I came back out and warmed him up with the blanket. As I was snuggling him tight with the blanket, he told me that he was scared of my shadow. This is new. My child isn’t scared of anything–let alone shadows.
Once I had him snugly in the carseat, I realized mommy had left her bot bot (a.k.a. coffee) in the house. Can’t forget that. I ran quickly back into the house and picked up my bot bot. And finally, we were off.
We chatted and sang the whole way to school. He counted to ten. We sang the ABC song, the Itsy Bitsy Spider, the Wheels on the Bus (he knows all the moves and noises), and maybe a few others that I’m missing. He’s learning so much these days and his vocabulary is expanding a LOT. The things he says. . . . “OH MY DOODNESS”–is his new phrase and there is absolutely nothing cuter in my life right now.
When we arrived at Debbie’s house (his teacher is Debbie–so he calls daycare her house), we had to take the blanket with us because he was COLD….brrrr he said. I realized then that I’d packed everything but the kitchen sink in the car this morning. . . . and his cookies we baked last night for school.